The message was pretty clear: if you're doing yoga with Indians, wear faded stuff. Decency in temples for yoga, is part of respecting places of worship, which as a Hindu I honour. Yet, most stuck to the faded look. Some even resembled as though they are wearing their home clothes (HOME ATTIRE), and coming straight to temple yoga.
But then, I tried aerial yoga. And suddenly, everyone there, especially the Chinese folks, wore two-piece outfits. At first, I felt a bit weird in my usual attire, but eventually, I decided to switch things up and got myself some two-piece yoga outfits.
Now, let me delve into why this change has
been so significant.
Observing Correct Technique
Wearing a two-piece yoga outfit is more
than just about fashion; it's about embracing your body, regardless of its
shape or size. I deeply admire those who wear them because it shows their
acceptance of themselves and their willingness to observe their movements in
the mirror during practice, ensuring they're performing the poses correctly.
Highlighting Specific Body Parts
Wearing these outfits for conducting my yoga sessions allows me to highlight specific body parts during poses, like demonstrating that in a forward fold, it's the waist that should be engaged rather than just reaching for the feet with the arms. It's about building flexibility in the right muscles.
Dressing professionally adds a touch of credibility to my role as a yoga instructor; it beats showing up in faded leggings and a stretched-out t-shirt any day.
Confidence Regardless of Age
And let's not forget the boost in
self-confidence it brings. By confidently donning my two-piece yoga outfits,
I'm sending a message that age is no barrier to feeling great and embracing
oneself. In fact, I'm proud to show that even in my 60s, I can exude more
confidence than some of the younger instructors who shy away from wearing such
outfits. As a yoga instructor, I firmly believe in embodying the principles I
teach. If we preach self-confidence and healthy living through yoga, it should
be evident not just in our words but also in our physical appearance.
Challenges in Embracing Change: Indian
Culture and Norms
Despite the positive changes I've
experienced, there's still a downside to wearing two-piece yoga outfits,
especially when it comes to sharing videos on social media. Unfortunately, I've
faced criticism and derogatory remarks, such as being called "old
lady" or "shameless."
It's disheartening to see how deeply
ingrained cultural biases can influence perceptions, particularly regarding
Indian women wearing such attire.
However, I choose to view these comments as reflections of the insecurities of those making them. It seems that confidence in one's own body is often misconstrued and attacked, particularly when age becomes a focal point.
Even Indian female yoga instructors,
including plus-size ones, often wear tight t-shirts and yoga leggings without
realizing the potential immodesty. However, wearing two-piece yoga outfits is
deemed obscene. Yet, those who opt for tight t-shirts and yoga leggings, inadvertently reveal
more than intended, highlighting the need for a shift in perception.
It's high time Indian society reconsiders its stance and recognizes that wearing two-piece yoga outfits isn't inherently obscene. Instead, it represents a step forward in embracing our bodies and feeling empowered. Let's refrain from passing judgment based on clothing choices.
Do you ever attack/backstab me behind my back because of what I wear for yoga?
Are you lacking confidence, leading you to criticize others?
Do you use Indian norms to justify your judgments?
Have you ever considered how you look in Indian attire?
Do you prioritize looking presentable for yoga?
Is lack of self-confidence the reason why you put down
other Indian women who keep in shape and size, and dress accordingly?
These questions prompt us to reflect on our interactions with others and ourselves.
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