For lunch, we headed to "Flavour Of Southvala" in Karol Bagh. Despite the cramped seating, the food was exceptional. We shared a Paper Tosai, a Non-Vegetarian Thali Set, and India's beloved Bru Coffee. The curries were rich and flavorful, thanks to the spices used, and the presentation was appetizing - unlike some eateries that overlook the importance of plating. This meal was a clear winner, making up for the less enjoyable dining experiences elsewhere (CHENNAI & KODAIKANAL).
For men in India, bathroom breaks are even more informal. They relieve themselves wherever they please, and it's a sight that's hard to miss. I'd seen enough in North India to know it wasn't just a South Indian phenomenon (MYSURU & CHENNAI) . At some sightseeing spots, the smell is impossible to avoid as you walk in.
For me, Jaipur is the Love City. The day began with a visit to the Birla Mandir, also known as the Lakshmi Narayan Temple. Built by the Birla family in 1988, this modern architectural marvel is made entirely of pristine white marble and dedicated to Lord Vishnu and Goddess Lakshmi. Nestled at the base of Moti Dungri Hill, the temple's intricate carvings depict scenes from Hindu mythology, saints, philosophers, and historical figures (VARANASI: SACRED GANGES)
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We arrived at Hotel Arch in New Delhi around 2 AM, greeted by the early winter chill. My room, though small, was clean and comfortable, including the bathroom. The next morning, breakfast was served before 7 AM, a thoughtful gesture despite the limited choices. The highlight was undoubtedly the Bru coffee, a beloved staple in any part of India, whether at street stalls or in hotels.
Let me tell you about my two days exploring this vibrant city. We started our journey at the Sri Ranganathaswamy Temple, a revered shrine dedicated to Lord Ranganatha, a reclining form of Lord Vishnu. Known for its intricate Dravidian architecture, the temple boasts majestic towers, beautiful carvings, and peaceful courtyards, amidst the city's hustle.
I watched locals immersed in prayer, a testament to South India's deep spirituality. Though not deeply religious myself, I followed our tour group with curiosity, absorbing the temple's atmosphere before moving on (HOKKAIDO JAPAN WINTER LUST).
Instant Recognition: Malaysians in South
India
South Indians have a knack for spotting Malaysians right away, often asking or exclaiming "Malaysia?" upon meeting. Despite initial appearances, interactions with locals often reveal their warmth and friendliness. Conversations at temples uncovered that many visitors travelled long distances for their visits, some experiencing these temples for the first time. One humorous encounter involved a local lady questioning the necessity of visiting a Murugan temple in Chennai when Malaysia’s Batu Caves' Murugan is equally renowned in India.
Temples in South India: A Cultural Shock
Visiting temples in South India feels like
navigating a battlefield due to the immense crowds. Compared to Malaysia's more
orderly atmosphere, the temple experience here can be chaotic, with pushing,
shoving, and queue-cutting the norm. Shockingly, even elderly and seemingly
frail individuals navigate these crowds with surprising vigor, highlighting how
their integral role in temple activities.
Temple Practices: Commercialization and
Devotion
Despite India's large Hindu population and
emphasis on Hinduism's teachings, temple practices often involve transactions.
Devotees can pay for queue-jumping privileges or expedited services,
highlighting a stark reality within Hinduism's spiritual spaces. Additionally,
individuals adorned in orange or yellow attire with sacred markings may offer
prayers for a fee, raising questions about the commercial aspects of religious
practices. However, the Malaysian Indians I was with placed their trust in
these practices.
Photographing
in Temples
There are restrictions in some temples where you are not even allowed to bring your camera or phone inside. In others, there are designated areas with or without restrictions. Even in temples where photography and videos are permitted, it's nearly impossible due to the sheer number of people and the constant pushing and shoving. I wouldn't dare take out my phone, as anything could happen in such situations.
Dress Code Expectations
Modern dressing
is generally not welcomed in South India. Wearing contemporary outfits can
attract stares from everyone, except in malls where staff are more accustomed
to it. Traditional clothing is expected everywhere else, especially in temples.
Shopping Craze: Malaysian Indians in South
India
Shopping becomes a passion for Malaysian Indians visiting South India, with every shop, mall, and roadside stall capturing their attention. The focus on shopping, especially for sarees and budget street clothes, overshadows other factors like bulk-imported goods being cheaper. Some prioritize shopping over sightseeing, staying out until late hours even after hotel check-ins, which left me puzzled.
Culinary Adventures: South Indian Cuisine
South Indian cuisine dominates the food experience, predominantly vegetarian throughout the day, including hotel buffet breakfasts devoid of eggs. Surprisingly, the Malaysian Indian group I traveled with adopted a vegetarian diet during the tour, citing temple visits as the reason - a cultural adjustment that raised eyebrows.
Washroom Woes: Hygiene Challenges in South India
Throughout our travels in South India,
aside from hotels and malls, the state of washrooms left much to be desired.
Often lacking water, pails, adequate lighting, and sometimes even functioning
locks, these facilities were frequently unpleasant and smelly. In moments of
urgency, one had to manage with these conditions by closing their eyes and
holding their breath.
Cultural Norms: Public Peeing in South
India
A common sight in South India was men
freely peeing in public spaces. This casual approach to relieving themselves
often included visible displays, which, while accepted locally, could overwhelm
with strong odors in some areas.
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Upon arrival, we had to deposit our phones and cameras at the booth where we left our slippers, paying a fee. Standing in the long queue, we learned about an option to pay to shorten our wait time - not uncommon in Indian temples. After enduring 45 minutes under the scorching sun, with feet blistered from the burning heat of the cement, I had been in favor from the start; finally, the rest of our group reluctantly agreed, which moved us closer to the center of the line, although many others remained ahead of us.
Its lush greenery, mist-covered
hills, and pleasant climate offer a perfect escape from the heat of the plains,
providing breathtaking views of the surrounding landscapes. Situated 2,000
meters above sea level in the Dindigul district, Kodaikanal boasts a unique
ecosystem and a blend of natural beauty, tranquility, and mystique, making it a
popular honeymoon destination
Our journey from Coimbatore (MYSURU & COIMBATORE) to Kodaikanal spanned 4 1/2 hours, including along narrow, winding in-roads shared with lorries, buses, cars, and motorbikes navigating steep inclines and descents. There were some aggressive gestures and heated exchanges, with words exchanged that felt like a sharp prick in my ears.
After a 7-hour drive, we finally arrived in Bengaluru, only to face the infamous city traffic. The constant honking, chaotic driving, and maze-like streets made for quite a spectacle. Every driver seemed like a hero of the road, weaving in and out of lanes. It wasn’t the smoothest introduction to the city (MYANMAR ACROSS MAE SAI), but soon we reached our destination: Lalbagh Botanical Garden.
The van arrived with my new travel buddies and our Thai lady guide, a humble and amazing soul. Thrilled to explore (HOKKAIDO WANDERLUST), we headed to Mae Sai. After our guide handled the permits at the border, the real adventure began. The sun was blazing, but I didn’t care - I was too pumped. Crossing the border, I was hit by the raw energy of everyday life. People hustled about, street vendors manned their stalls, and no one gave us a second glance. Our guide filled us in on Tachileik and our stops (KOCHI KALEISCOPE).
Its strategic location and natural harbor have made it a melting pot of cultures, contributing to its diverse heritage. Kochi is also famed for its vibrant maritime history, being home to one of India's oldest European settlements, and it remains a vital hub for shipping and international trade (COLOMBO & KANDY SRI LANKA).
Established in the 18th century by Travancore Maharaja Marthanda Varma, the temple showcases the deity in a rare "Anantha Shayanam" posture, reclining gracefully on the serpent Anantha. Of course, its international fame skyrocketed with the discovery of hidden treasures worth billions, firmly securing its place as one of the world's richest temples.
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